
One of our cloth dolls, Mimi, recently gained some online notoriety when she became the subject of intense debate (on MumsNet) over her skin colour. Some of it was considered and thoughtful and some it rather flippantly judgmental as a great deal of internet chat can be.
Like all our dolls Mimi was originally named after a member of the family. Indeed Mimi was the Transkei student who lived with us during our last 5 years in Cape Town in the late 1980s. She was young and ambitious both for herself and her young daughter. We loved her when we were under the same roof and missed her greatly when we left. I could not say a great deal more except that as with all our products this doll is extremely personal and we would miss her too, if we were to stop making her.
But the debate has made me aware that many continue to see in objects like the Mimi doll symbols of something quite different. To them she is a reminder of servitude, bigotry and inequality. I wish they could have met Mimi. Just as I wish they could have met the girl who made the doll.
I still remember Penelope walking alone down the centre of the High Street in Grahamstown in the Eastern Cape holding a single wreath and wearing her academic gown. She was walking alone because the law in South Africa at the time held that if another joined her it would be considered a “riotous assembly”. It made her especially vulnerable and on either side of the street were people were shouting and swearing at her. Some spat. She kept on walking and looked straight ahead. She was giving her contribution to a vigil to mark the passing of Steven Biko, the Black Consciousness leader who had died in detention a week before. She was something else, Penelope. Never suffered fools and never looked the other way.
I consider myself lucky enough that she allowed me to move in with her a week later. I have not moved out in more or less 30 years!
HAVE YOUR SAY
And so I have decided to ask your opinion on this debate. By the time you read this I might have actually found a widget to allow you to vote on this. If so, I hope it is still working. Otherwise, please leave your comments below. Do you think we should stop making dolls like Mimi? CLICK TO VOTE